How "Average" Guys Can Attract Hot Women
>QUICK THOUGHT: None of us wants to be thought of
as "average"... and women aren't attracted to guys
that they think are "average". The secret isn't to
be something you're not. The secret is to take
what's NOT average about you, and make it
STRONGER. If this makes sense, and you'd like to
learn more about it, then take a second and check
I have a question for you...
What do you REALLY WANT when it comes to the
area of your life called "Women and Dating"?
Could you explain it to me if I called you up
on the phone in 5 minutes and asked you?
In other words, do you REALLY, REALLY know just
what it is that you're looking for?
If you're like most guys that I talk to, you
probably couldn't tell me.
Or if you did tell me, it would be clear that
you hadn't taken any real time to think about it
before I asked you.
Now, before I tell you why this is a problem, I
have to confess something to you...
It wasn't very long ago that I used to be in
exactly the same boat.
I had NO IDEA what I was looking for.
It was only after a LOT of trial and error,
dating crazy women who made my life impossible,
and chasing my tail that I finally figured out
what it was that I REALLY wanted.
And once I figured it out, I realized that I
As it turns out, I think that MOST guys want
what I want when it comes to "women and dating",
but they just haven't thought about it long enough
to be able to say it.
I think that what 90% of men are looking for is
a GREAT long-term relationship with a GREAT woman.
What do I mean when I use the term "Great
I mean a woman who is naturally beautiful, who
takes care of herself physically, who is
emotionally and financially stable... who doesn't
"need" you, but "wants" you, who can take care of
herself in every way...
...you know what I'm saying here.
But guess what?
Women like this are VERY rare.
I mean like one in a thousand or so.
And they are NEVER at a loss for a date.
I digress... but I'll come back to this later.
Earlier I mentioned that it is a problem that
men don't KNOW what they want.
Now I want to talk about WHY it's such a big
There are two main reasons:
1) Not knowing what you want LOWERS the chances of
GETTING what you want.
2) In this particular situation, when it comes to
this type of woman, not understanding what you
want makes your chances of getting her almost
Let's talk about these two issues.
NOT KNOWING WHAT YOU WANT LOWERS YOUR CHANCES OF
If you've read any "self-help" books at all,
then you know that it's important to set goals in
Because setting goals makes your mind work on
When you think through your goals, and take the
time to figure them out, write them down, and make
plans to get them, you put a set of processes in
motion that dramatically increase your chances of
getting what you want.
If you don't know what I'm talking about, go
read "Think And Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill.
Just do it.
NOT UNDERSTANDING THIS PARTICULAR TYPE OF WOMAN
MAKES YOUR CHANCES OF GETTING HER ALMOST ZERO
This is the big issue here.
This is the one that most guys just don't
get...and the one that, by itself, really leads to
The fact is that most guys would really like to
meet a great girl.
The times in my life when I've had an amazing
woman as my girlfriend have been FANTASTIC.
There is nothing quite like having a stunning,
intelligent, well-dressed, interesting woman in
your life. Nothing.
Now, I get a lot of guys who write to me and
say things like:
"David, I don't want to have to learn any of the
things you teach. I want a woman to like me for
who I am..."
"The kind of woman that I want to find would not
respond to the things you teach... she would see
me for the person that I am..."
...and a million other things.
I can identify with this stuff.
I spent many years of my life thinking this
In fact, I spent so much time thinking this way
and getting horrible results, that I am probably
the world's leading expert on it.
I just wanted a woman to "see me for who I was"
and who saw past all of my flaws and wanted to be
with me for me.
I hated the idea of trying to change myself.
But here's the deal:
An exceptional woman has OPTIONS.
The kind of woman that I described is
approached by men ALL THE TIME.
My estimate is that a beautiful, successful,
intelligent woman is approached by men an average
of 5 or 10 times A DAY.
To put it another way, if you meet a really
interesting, exceptional woman, you can bet that
she has been approached between 150 and 300 times
in the past month ALONE.
Think about that.
Imagine what it must be like to be a woman who
is approached so often.
As a side note, if you want to learn how to
APPROACH these types of women and actually have
consistent SUCCESS, then you need to look at THIS:
Back to what I was saying...
Even if she WANTED to spend time with many of
the men who approach her, there would be no way to
It's just not practical.
So what's a girl to do?
The only thing that an exceptional girl CAN do
is use TIME MANAGEMENT principals.
She has to decide almost INSTANTLY if a guy is
"worth" spending more time with.
And she has to make her decision based on very
AND she can't make the mistake of being "too
friendly" and giving a guy the "wrong idea"...
because if she does, he'll probably call her 100
times over the next month.
Unusually attractive, exceptional women become
very good at ELIMINATING men based on very little
If you're a man who hasn't made it a goal to
attract one of these women, who doesn't understand
this particular fact, and who doesn't understand
how to get past this initial "test", then your
chances of attracting one of these women is as
close to zero as anything is in the world.
The REALITY of this situation is that you are
not the only guy in the world who wants a woman
EVERY guy would like to meet her.
There are a lot of guys out there who are
willing to call her more, spend more money on her,
do more things for her, and pay her more attention
You can't get a girl like this one by doing the
And here's the KICKER...
The next girl you date probably isn't going to
be this girl.
In fact, you're probably going to need to go
out with MANY women before you're going to run
into one of these rare women.
But as they say, "Every cloud has a silver
And this cloud does, too.
The fact is that spending time dating other
women is EXACTLY what will TEACH you how to
attract one of these exceptional women.
You HAVE to do it.
So let's wrap this up.
First, take some time and figure out what it is
that you want.
Write it down, and make a list.
What are the physical, intellectual, and
emotional qualities that you're looking for?
Be specific, and get a clear picture in your
Next, become the guy that she'll feel
ATTRACTION for when you meet her.
There are two parts to this one.
The first part is preparing yourself to date
many women to find her... and then getting out
there and doing it.
The second and most important part, is to
LEARN what you need to do in order to be the guy
that she'll be attracted to.
It's not luck.
What's the best way to learn?
I'm so glad you asked...
As it turns out, I've spent the last five years
of my life on this.
And I've taken what I've learned and created
the best products available to teach you all the
things you need to learn in order to be successful
with women and dating.
My eBook "Double Your Dating" covers dozens of
great techniques on overcoming fear, approaching
women, getting dates, and taking things to a
You can download it here right now:
If you're ready for a world-class education,
and complete reprogramming, then I recommend my
Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD program.
It includes over 12 full hours of digitally
recorded audio or video of me personally teaching
you all of my personal secrets and techniques.
This program is only for guys who REALLY want
to invest in themselves, and who want to do what
it takes to become GREAT with women.
All the details, plus some great free audio and
video samples are here:
I'll talk to you again soon.
PS: If you want to get insider secrets on how to use your "energy"
to attract a woman quickly - even if you're not her type - then you
don't want to miss this month's "Interviews With Marriage Gurus." I
talk with Larry & Frank, the co-founders of Match Matrix... and get
them to spill the beans on attraction, picking the right women to
date, and more. But hurry - the interview goes to press this Monday,
June 15th, at midnight:
Copyright 2009 David DeAngelo Marketing Inc. David
DeAngelo and Double Your Dating are trademarks. By
reading and accepting this newsletter you agree to
all of the following: You understand that this is
simply a set of opinions (and not advice). This is
to be used for entertainment, and not considered
as "professional advice". You are responsible for
any use of the information in this email, and hold
David DeAngelo Marketing Inc. and all members and
affiliates harmless in any claim or event. If you
are under 18 years old, please click the
link at the end, and remove yourself, or to take
yourself off of our list, you can send mail to
"DDMI" 3960 Howard Hughes Pkwy, 5th Floor Las
Vegas, NV 89109.
To ensure that you get my Dating Tips Newsletters each week,
add me to your address book. Instructions are here: