Saturday, June 13, 2009

Dating very attractive women

Dating very attractive women
by : Matthew Fitzgerald

Let's be honest: Good-looking women in the 21st century have the world -- literally -- by the balls. That's because for very attractive women men are panting puppets, sex is available on demand and money flows from male wallets in a never-ending stream of avarice.

Without lifting a finger, very attractive women enjoy lives that most people can only fantasize about.

For men, the lure of dating very attractive women is obvious as they are arm candy, boost self-esteem, increase social status among men, multiply a guy's sexual desirability, and hot women are just damn good to look at. While all of this is well and good, very attractive women have their dark side and can be shallow, self-centered and self-absorbed, not to mention that many of them are selfish, think that their vaginas are gold-plated, and are manipulators, among many other negative qualities.

Despite these drawbacks, very attractive women are what most guys look for. Since these women are constantly bombarded with male attention, they can afford to be highly selective about the men they date, which usually lands them some dude with money first and good looks second.

Is there any hope for you if you don't have extremely good looks or lots of cash? Well, you just might be able give yourself a decent shot if you're willing to make a couple of shifts in your dating strategy and take our advice on dating very attractive women.

The key to success with dating very attractive women is to be different. Beautiful women have heard it all, so if you want a chance at very attractive women, you're going to have to do something different.

Here are a few examples of what it takes when dating very attractive women:

Treat her like she's nothing special

Talk to her like you would any other person. Don't act awestruck by her looks, don't gush out compliments and never stare at her with lust. Reduce the intimidation factor, be debonair and seem aloof, as if you don't care about her looks. Whatever you do, don't assume she doesn't want to talk to you. Dating very attractive women requires you to almost seem indifferent.

Don't hit on her

This is what she expects from the typical guy, so just make like you're ignoring her. This is a great technique to use if you run into very attractive women on a routine basis at work, a coffee shop or a health club. If you don't give her any attention -- while openly paying attention to other women -- she won't be able to stand it because you'll be the only guy within a hundred miles who isn't drooling over her. With luck, she'll be intrigued. Avoid pickup lines at all costs.

Tease her

Very attractive women can sense fear and insecurity the way a moth smells pheromones, so be light, fun and entertaining. Boyish charm can take you a long way with these women -- many of the great-looking guys they date can be seriously personality-challenged.

Dating very attractive women requires a seemingly big ego

Talk about her interests & passions
Stimulate her mind, as other guys probably don't. Show interest in her intellect and make her comfortable. Play on your good aspects and not your looks -- but don't lie to impress her.

Don't compliment her

Don't put her on a pedestal, where she usually sits with other men. If you do give her a minimal compliment, follow up with something off-putting. Tell her, for example, that she's wearing a nice dress, but that your sister has the same one. This says she has good fashion style, but that she's not entirely original.

Tell her she's not up to your standards

Tell her you'd like to ask her out, but she's just not up to your usual standards (watch her jaw hit the floor). If you really want to throw her, steal her thunder and tell her that you think you should be just friends.

Wait a little while to call her

If you get her phone number, wait at least a week to call her -- and then tell her you'll try to fit a date with her into your schedule.

Don't push for sex

She knows she's got the goods, so when you're out with her, she expects you to be a horndog. Make her wait and it will drive her crazy.

Run hot & cold

If you haven't gone out with her yet, be extremely friendly, and follow it up with a period of aloofness. Or date her a couple of times, then drop her cold (with every intention of starting back up again). She'll be stunned.

keep her guessing

The idea is to keep her off-balance, intrigued and guessing -- make her want to spend time with you just because you're so different from any other guy out there. Just remember: Don't let your guard down and go wimpy on her -- the very second she thinks she's in control of you, it's all over. So by being different, by bringing a little refreshing change into the life of very attractive women, you might be surprised -- it might just be the breath of fresh air she's been looking for. Sure, it's no magic charm, and it's certainly not going to work every time. Trying to score a date with very attractive women is definitely a numbers game. But all it takes is one, and if you pull it off, you're going to be in for the sweetest ride of your life.

Matthew Fitzgerald is the author of Sex-Ploytation. He has appeared on radio shows from coast to coast in the United States and in Canada, and has been featured on the Montel show and The Other Half.


  1. If you come across uneasy, then what kind of vibe do you think that you are going to put out. When you are seducing a woman, atmosphere counts for a lot. And you contribute to that atmosphere. So, if you are nervous and shaky about things, the women is going to sense this and respond. And the response is NOT going to be the kind that you want to hear.

  2. Does it raise the chance that things will take a turn in the direction that you are hoping for if you know how to make really good, hypnotic conversation? You bet it does. It makes her feel connected to you and that connection is what will make it seem natural for the two of you to take things to the next level.

  3. You know, most men feel like they have to compete with a bunch of guys when they see a really good looking woman that they want to hook up with, but the reality is that you are only competing with yourself. At the end of the day, if you know what you are doing and you are confident in yourself, then the other guys don't matter one bit. That's not to say that they won't be somewhat of a challenge, but hey, it doesn't matter if your game is tight and you know how to make a woman feel like she wants YOU.


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