take responsibility

Take responsibility

If you want to have massive success with women and life, transform yourself from someone who is a victim to someone who makes things happen. Take responsible for your thoughts, actions and results. And any time you catch yourself not taking responsibility for your life, stop and tell yourself: “I take responsibility.” Especially in those moments when it’s easy to blame things on someone else. That’s the most important time. By taking responsibility for your whole life, you’ll become a much better man -- and create the life you want in the process

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things you should never say to a woman

things you should never say to a woman

by David DeAngelo

There are a lot of great -- and terrible -- articles written on “lines” to say to a woman, but what about what not to say? It is my opinion that many mistakes can be avoided by keeping your mouth closed. So, without further ado, here are the 10 things you should never say to a woman.

1. can i kiss you ?
2. can i take you out on a date sometime ?
3. anything about your car, job or house that sounds like you are trying to impress her ?
4. what do you want to do tonigh ?
5. do you like me ?
6. i left you a message the other day, but did't hear back. what happened ?
7. how many guys have you slept with ?
8. anything that hints at a future
9. i'll call you friday
10. anything bad about her guy friends

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ways to grap a womans attention

ways to grap a woman's attention

by David DeAngelo

If you want to succeed with women, you need to learn how to stand out from the crowd and grab a woman’s attention, fast. No, it’s not about fancy clothes or pickup lines. It’s about learning a few key skills that will make a lasting impression on the woman you want. Here are 10 tips you can use immediately:

1. improve yourself
2. don't give in to tantrums
3. grabbing attention online
4. forget the tricks
5. smooth out awkward silences
   
   
6. get numbers smoothly
7. three more dos and don'ts of body language
8. take control
9. know what you'll say ahead of time
10. retool your body language

explanation above :

1. improve yourself
   
   Most guys don’t take the time to work on themselves. If you really want to grab a woman’s attention -- and keep it -- then be one of the few men who take the time to develop themselves into the kind of guy worthy of an amazing woman’s attention.
   
   Invest in yourself -- get an education on how to attract women naturally -- and that’ll do more than anything else to put you on the path to success with the women you want.
   
   
2. don't give in to tantrums
   
   Many women will test you by complaining about themselves.
   
   The next time this happens, take whatever she’s saying and turn it up a notch. If she says: "My hair makes me look so ugly,” just reply, "You know, I wasn't going to say anything, but..." Remember, combine Cocky with Funny and you have an excellent chance of hitting her attraction buttons.
   
   If you really want to be bold, just say: "So, what am I going to get paid for babysitting tonight?" Or even better, "Did this stuff work on your dad? Why didn't he spank you more?" I'm cracking myself up over here.
   
   
3. grabbing attention online
   
   The No. 1 mistake men make online is writing normal, boring stuff and asking normal, boring questions.
   
   Instead, when you get a reply, e-mail and ask her for her number and tell her that you're swamped with a million messages from supermodels who keep bragging about how much money they have, and she needs to act fast or you'll be gone. Do not, under any circumstances, talk about lame, normal stuff. This will give you an advantage over 90% of the other men looking for women online. Trust me.
   

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ways to become an envolved man

Ways To Become An Evolved Man

by David DeAngelo

If you want to become the kind of guy who attracts women automatically -- and always has women in his life -- it’s important that you become an “evolved man.” You need to operate on a higher level than the average Joe. When you do, you’ll stand out from other guys, attract the women you want and get a hell of a lot more out of life in the process. Here are 10 tips to help you evolve and grow as a man -- starting today.

1. stop apologizing
2. stop seeking approval
3. stop giving approval to get it
4. surrond yourself with successful models
5. know your purpose in life
6. travel
7. focus on your inner game
8. accept anxiety
9. enjoy the process of learning
10. teach others what you learn

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ways to keep your dream girl

Ways To Keep Your Dream Girl

by David DeAngelo

Have you ever thought about what kind of guy your dream girl really wants? It all boils down to one thing: She wants a real man. Unfortunately, none of us were given a manual on exactly what a real man is -- or how to become one. Here are 10 ways to keep your dream girl.

1. see yourself as "high status"
2. always seek the next level
3. eliminate failure by learning from
4. stop making up meaning
5. work on yourself, not women
6. accept everything the way it is
7. move your frame of reference inside
8. build a self-image that you love
9. evict your inner wussy
10. take responsibility

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sign language compliments

Sign Language Compliments

by Chris Illuminati

Women love compliments. They live for them, yearn for them and sometimes even fish for them. Why do they pine for voiced appreciation so badly? Probably because, for men, giving a compliment is as natural as not hitting the bowl rim while peeing or going an hour without thinking about sex -- it’s impossible. (See: I just thought about sex.)

A woman would love to hear a man compliment her on the way she looks, how funny she is and how interesting her thoughts are. How would she feel if she got that compliment in the form of sign language?

Sign language is easier than it looks. Just a few minutes and a guy can master hundreds of sweet things to say to his partner.

(deepika padukone)

Here are some simple sign language compliments to learn that will not only score you points with your woman, but show it is possible to teach an old dog some new tricks (except that peeing issue -- that’s going to take practice).

1. i could talk to you all night long
   
   This is obviously a lie. No guy wants to talk all night long. Hell, no woman wants to talk all night long, but it’s an incredibly nice thing to say. Give her this sign that you would love talking to her all night and she might throw you a sign that says: “Screw talking, let’s get to some action.” It’s not a hand signal but you will know when it happens.
   
   
2. that is a great outfit
   
   The outfit she is wearing was the 800th clothing option for the evening. She put it on and took it off no less than 20 times. Sign that you love her outfit and it shows you are not only paying attention to the way she gets dressed for these meetings, but that her choice was a wise one (even though many of the 800 would have been fine). Make sure to go as far as to pick out an exact piece of clothing to highlight. The shoes are always a smart choice
   
   
3. i'm having a great time
4. you crack me up
5. you're definitely the hottest of your group
6. i like the way your mind works
7. do you work out
   
   Women struggle with their body image. Even if they look fantastic and treat their body like a well-oiled machine, women still think their physiques need improvement in certain areas. Let her know her body looks fantastic with this hand gesture. If she says yes, apologize for asking such an obvious question. If she says no, tell her she has a body most women would die for. It’s a body you’d die for, but in a different way (don’t sign that).
   
   
8. you have an amazing smile
   
   Actually getting her to smile is going to be your first goal -- try saying something witty at least once. Once she flashes the pearly whites, let her know how amazing her smile is with this simple sign. Women take as much pride in their teeth these days as they do their hair and nails. A simple compliment about her smile will get her to smile more, even when you crack your next dumb joke.
   
   
9. your hair looks great
   
   Men don’t realize how much it costs for a woman to get her hair done. It doesn’t matter if it’s cutting it, coloring it or even blow-drying it, hair is the first thing women attend to when getting ready for a date.
   
   She has spent hours on getting her hair to look like she hasn’t spent hours on it, so sign off a quick compliment about how great her hair looks.
   
   
10. you look beautiful
    
    
    it’s a no-brainer that women love to be complimented on the way they look -- especially because of the amount of time, effort and money they put into making themselves look so good. You’d be surprised how many guys fail to notice or even say a word.
    
    A simple compliment about how great she looks is the perfect way to get things going on a good note. Give her the sign that she looks fantastic the moment she walks in the door.
    
    

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ways to attract sexy women

Ways to attact sexy women

by David De Angelo

Every guy wants a sexy woman. The problem is that sexy women get hit on all the time and have a ton of options. To succeed with these hot babes, you have to find a way to stand out from the crowd.

Here are 10 ways to attract sexy women that will get you going in the right direction and help you make a big impact on the hottie you want

(Bipasa Basu)

1. be willing to hit the road
   
   I get so many e-mails from guys who have met a great girl, but they screwed it up because they made her "too important" mentally.
   
   In other words, when things started to get difficult, instead of taking the attitude of "next," which creates all kinds of attraction, they cling and do exactly the things that cause the woman to hit the road for good.
   
   It’s much better to have the mental attitude of "I'm going to enjoy this woman's company for as long as it stays a good thing.
   
   The moment that she becomes a strain or a pain I'm out of here. I don't need problems or drama in my life.”
   
   The first response to this is usually: "But this woman is special. She's not like other women. She's the one."
   
   If she's the one, then all the more reason to take this attitude. It’ll do a lot of good things for your success with women. Use it.
   
   
   
2. give her space
   
   If a woman says: "I need time to get to know myself" or "I need to find myself" or any variation of this common theme, it usually means you were acting like a Wuss, being clingy and generally not a challenge anymore.
   
   If you become too predictable, too involved, too needy, too Wuss-ish, and too "head over heels" too early in the relationship, it will drive a woman away.
   
   Sexy women have guys chasing them far more than the average or below-average women. You need to do something different, while at the same time being attractive.
   
   Probably the best thing you can do when you finally meet a really great girl is call her half as much as you normally would, and give her twice the space. Think about it.
   
   
   
   
3. stop chasing
   
   I can remember when I used to call women too often, and if they didn't show up, I'd get upset and try to set up another date with them, etc.
   
   Of course, they'd usually play hard to get, and wind up thinking that I was a Wussy because I just accepted their flaky behavior.
   
   Well, after I stopped calling back women who flaked and basically stopped chasing women, I had the strangest thing happen; I had women call me -- sometimes weeks later.
   
   When a woman flakes, don’t worry about it. Just move on. She'll probably start flirting with you again when the timing’s right.
   
   
4. date her casually
   
   How do women know if a man is interested in them for a "long-term" relationship or if he's just interested in dating casually?
   
   The trigger for this is how often you see them and how often you call them. Of course, there's more to it, like whether or not you buy gifts, talk about how you feel, ask her to be your girlfriend, etc.
   
   But if you want to just see a woman casually and not have her become "hooked" on you, then don't call her more than a couple of times a week, and don't see her more than once a week -- maybe twice sometimes
   
   
5. be a leader
   
   Sexy women aren't attracted to Wussies.
   
   So how could you characterize a Wuss? A Wussy is a guy who is weak, indecisive and insecure. A Wussy isn't in control, and he doesn't make decisions.
   
   Women feel attraction for men who demonstrate the qualities of a leader. How could you characterize a leader? A leader is a man who is in control of the situation, and who makes decisions and follows through on them without needing approval from others.
   
   Be a leader -- sexy women will love you for it.
   
   
6. pass the sexy-woman test
   
   Most guys miss the point entirely when a woman starts testing them.
   
   Instead of turning up the volume and hitting the ball right back over the net twice as fast, most guys just crumble and lose all the energy, sexual tension and chemistry that was in the situation.
   
   When a woman throws down the challenge, or starts to test you, instead of responding by saying: "OK, whatever you want," you need to create even more tension, turn it up and understand how to amplify the sexual tension and attraction in the situation.
   
   If you don’t understand tests, you'll just misinterpret everything that happens and miss all your opportunities
   
   
7. lead her
   
   Regardless of the situation, a sexy woman wants you to lead the way.
   
   You're going to have to take the next step in some way. Don't wait around and hope something happens.
   
   There's always a smooth, interesting way to take the ball and move forward with it. If you don't, you'll spend many of your evenings snuggling up to the TV.
   
   
8. be exciting to sexy women online
   
   Sexy women get 50 e-mails from guys every day. If you want to stand out, you need to make fun of them.
   
   Instead of writing the typical “You sound very interesting, we have a lot in common…” try something like “Hey, I don't think that this picture is really you. What, did you go to the mall and get one of those glamour shots done or something? Do you have a real picture? Like you at home on your Stairmaster or something? Or do you even work out? OK, stop trying to fool all of us guys and let's see what you really look like."
   
   Nice is boring, and it's never more boring than when it's online -- in a place where there are a million other "nice" guys who have zero personalities chasing after her.
   
   
   
9. tease her
   
   Sexy women will never admit it, but they love it when you tease and bust on them like there’s no tomorrow. Why? Because you're activating powerful sexual drives and female emotions that most men will never trigger inside of her -- and she'll be grateful to you for it.
   
   Even though an outsider might look at an evening that you spend with her and say: "He didn't treat her very well; he was difficult, very challenging and not complimentary at all,” at the end of the evening the woman you're with will go home with a deep, profound feeling of inner satisfaction that she won't be able to describe.
   
   So take the time to learn.
   
   
10. flirt with all women
    
    Practice being interesting, funny, challenging, and unpredictable in situations where you're seeing the same woman over and over, such as at your favorite coffee shops, restaurants, grocery stores, etc.
    
    When you tease and bust on a woman whom you're not interested in, and continue to keep the sexual tension up, other women will pick up on your confident vibe and wonder why you’re not flirting with them. Nice
    

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