Dating beautiful women

that is a great outfit

2009-11-14T20:45:00.000-08:00

"That is a great outfit."

The outfit she is wearing was the 800th clothing option for the evening. She put it on and took it off no less than 20 times. Sign that you love her outfit and it shows you are not only paying attention to the way she gets dressed for these meetings, but that her choice was a wise one (even though many of the 800 would have been fine). Make sure to go as far as to pick out an exact piece of clothing to highlight. The shoes are always a smart choice

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im having a great time

2009-11-14T20:42:00.000-08:00

"I'm having a great time."

Women want to know that the men they’re with are having a good time. They don’t want to have to come right out and ask (unlike men, who ask every 10 minutes -- back off!). Sign to her during a lull in the conversation that you are having a great time and follow it up with a smile or innocent little touch on the hand or arm. It will ease the situation and she will relax.

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you crack me up

2009-11-14T20:28:00.000-08:00

"You crack me up."

Every woman thinks she is hysterical. She believes she’s the funniest one among her friends -- it’s like being the thinnest contestant on The Biggest Loser. Some woman are actually funny and if your woman is quick with quip or the queen of one-liners, give her this sign to tell her she is pretty damn funny. Make sure you’re actually laughing while throwing out the sign -- it really sells it.

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youre definitely the hottest of your group

2009-11-14T20:25:00.000-08:00

"You're definitely the hottest of your group."

This is a tough compliment to pull of in any language -- American sign language or plain old English -- but drop it at the right time and a woman will turn as red as her glass of Merlot. Women love their friends, but there is always a quest to be the best-looking one in the group -- it usually goes unspoken. Wait for the moment she is discussing her little clan or retelling a tale about one of their trips out on the town to drop this sign that she is definitely the best-looking woman in the group of lovely ladies.

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i like the way your mind works

2009-11-14T20:19:00.000-08:00

"I like the way your mind works."

A woman loves compliments about her mind almost as much as compliments about her appearance -- they show a guy is paying attention to more than just her curves. Drop in a simple sign about liking the way her mind works during a conversation and she will know that you are not only paying attention to what she has to say, but really letting it sink into that normally thick male skull.

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do you work out

2009-11-14T20:16:00.000-08:00

"Do you work out?"

Women struggle with their body image. Even if they look fantastic and treat their body like a well-oiled machine, women still think their physiques need improvement in certain areas. Let her know her body looks fantastic with this hand gesture. If she says yes, apologize for asking such an obvious question. If she says no, tell her she has a body most women would die for. It’s a body you’d die for, but in a different way (don’t sign that).

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you have an amazing smile

2009-11-14T20:13:00.000-08:00

"You have an amazing smile."

Actually getting her to smile is going to be your first goal -- try saying something witty at least once. Once she flashes the pearly whites, let her know how amazing her smile is with this simple sign. Women take as much pride in their teeth these days as they do their hair and nails. A simple compliment about her smile will get her to smile more, even when you crack your next dumb joke.

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your hair looks great

2009-11-14T20:09:00.000-08:00

"Your hair looks great."

Men don’t realize how much it costs for a woman to get her hair done. It doesn’t matter if it’s cutting it, coloring it or even blow-drying it, hair is the first thing women attend to when getting ready for a date. She has spent hours on getting her hair to look like she hasn’t spent hours on it, so sign off a quick compliment about how great her hair looks.

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you look beautiful

2009-11-14T20:05:00.000-08:00

"You look beautiful."

It’s a no-brainer that women love to be complimented on the way they look -- especially because of the amount of time, effort and money they put into making themselves look so good. You’d be surprised how many guys fail to notice or even say a word. A simple compliment about how great she looks is the perfect way to get things going on a good note. Give her the sign that she looks fantastic the moment she walks in the door.

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use her own games on her

2009-11-14T10:32:00.000-08:00

Use her own games on her

We all know women love playing games. But when you turn the tables and play games on a woman, it shifts the power dynamic in your favor.

One of my favorite games to play with women is “You’re a brat, and I’m fake exasperated.” That’s pretty self-explanatory.

Some others are “Let’s see who can act the least interested,” and “I’m hard to get, and you love me.”

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hint that youre normal

2009-11-14T10:28:00.000-08:00

Hint that you’re normal

There are a lot of psycho, perverted and “mentally unstable” guys out there, so it’s important you communicate through your behavior that you’re NOT one of them.

Tell a woman you’re busy, and get off the phone WITHOUT asking her to meet for a date. Make fun of dumb-ass behavior, and other guys who act like wussies. If she calls but doesn’t leave a message, accuse her of being a stalker, and tell her that normal people leave messages.

Chase women out of your house; say “get out” over and over again if she’s kissing you. All of this gives her subtle signs that you’re not some freak who desperately wants to get in her pants. This will give her an irresistible craving to get to know you better because you’re so different from the typical needy guys she dates

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never backpedal or explain yourself

2009-11-14T10:24:00.000-08:00

Never backpedal or explain yourself

If you say or do something that seems to upset a woman, don’t try to explain your way out of it or do something to “make her feel better.”

Don’t act like you screwed up or show her that you’re nervous just because she’s acting upset. Just move on as if nothing happened. Get right on to the next topic or story. If she stays on it, whines or complains, just say “Get over it, it was a joke, stop being a pain,” and then get on to the next topic again.

If you try to backpedal or explain yourself or in any way hint that you think you’ve “screwed up,” you’re DEAD MEAT. If you say something and she doesn’t like it, that’s not YOUR problem.

Women often complain to see if they can manipulate you with their emotions, and when you show you don’t fall for this, her respect and ATTRACTION for you will go through the roof

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(Priyanka Chopra)

stay on your own course

2009-11-14T10:20:00.000-08:00

Stay on your own course

Most men orient themselves by following and seeking approval of the woman. She leads, they follow; in fact, she isn’t even leading, but the man tries to convince her to lead with questions and body language that seek approval.

This is a horrible mistake, and annoys women to no end. Instead, stay on your course, even when she’s all over the map. Let her reorient her body, behavior, moods, and responses to YOURS. Don’t ever try to get her to lead. Show her you’re the kind of man who loves to be the captain of your own ship, and she’ll feel an undeniable attraction to you.

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show her you get it

2009-11-14T10:16:00.000-08:00

Show her you get it

Women will act completely different around you and treat you very differently if you’re a guy who “gets it.”

The way to show her you’re one of these rare guys is to see when she’s testing you and keep your cool.

So if she mentions that other men are interested in her or she says she’s unavailable or she complains about something you do, realize it’s just a test. Then simply say, “Hey, stop that stuff,” and she’ll know what you mean.

More importantly, she’ll know she’s dealing with a real man, and she’ll stop at no expense to chase you down

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be the dominant one

2009-11-14T10:10:00.000-08:00

Be the dominant one

Courting is based on what you DO, what you OFFER, and what you GIVE… and is largely based on gifts, dinners, flowers, compliments, etc.

Attraction is based on how you communicate, who you are and your masculine identity.

Courting takes the “make friends” strategy and supersizes it; it’s about being as nice as possible in order to get her to like you. Attraction isn’t concerned with “liking” because a woman doesn’t need to like you in order to feel attracted to you.

Courting is facing the challenge; attraction is BEING the challenge. Courting is about being a follower, submissive and weak; attraction is about being a leader, dominant and strong. Stop courting, start attracting, and you won’t BELIEVE how it can transform your success with women

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stop courting start attracting

2009-11-14T10:05:00.000-08:00

Stop courting, start attracting

There are two basic models for how men approach meeting women: the courtship model, and the attraction model.

If you base your approach with women on ATTRACTION, you get a very different response from COURTING them.

When you court a woman, her natural response is to run, which makes you want her more and makes her run more. But when you attract a woman, her natural response is to chase YOU. This subtlety makes all the difference in the world

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see beyond getting laid

2009-11-14T09:58:00.000-08:00

See beyond getting laid

When I first started learning how to succeed with women and dating, the idea of getting laid was a lot more interesting to me than it is now because I thought that if you could learn how to “get laid” then you’d naturally be able to have any other kind of success you wanted with women.

Well, many of the guys I’ve met who are GREAT at “getting laid” don’t have any idea how to find a high-quality woman to have a great relationship with and when they do find one, they have no idea how to keep her around.

I think it’s much more interesting and useful to learn how and why women become attracted to men, and why they STAY attracted. This way, you’ll be able to keep that fantastic woman in your life once you find her. There’s nothing wrong with “getting laid,” but it’s only a tiny piece of the puzzle, and it alone won’t lead you to happiness and success in life.

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read between the lines

2009-11-14T09:55:00.000-08:00

Read between the lines

If you’re talking to a woman on the phone and she tells you that she’s seeing someone, understand that she’s saying this more for herself than for you. She probably is casually dating another guy, but she’s feeling attracted to you, so she needs to say this to put on the brakes so she doesn’t feel “promiscuous.”

If you find yourself in this situation, tell her something challenging like “Yeah, congratulations… and you know, that’s pretty assumptive thinking that I was trying to pursue you.” She won’t know what to say, and you will have communicated that you’re a confident guy who doesn’t need any woman -- just the kind of guy women LOVE. Don’t be surprised if she calls you back within a week, telling you she wants to get together and that she’s suddenly dumped the guy she was dating (for a chance to get to know you, of course)

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use reverse rapport

2009-11-14T09:51:00.000-08:00

Use “reverse rapport”

“Reverse rapport” is when you say and do the opposite of what a guy would do when he’s trying to make a woman like him… but in a sarcastic, overly serious way that assumes the woman already knows, likes and trusts you.

The objective here is NOT to try to be sweet and wonderful and nice in order to win her approval. How do you do this? Well, one way is to use a sarcastic comment that’s the OPPOSITE of what a woman wants to hear. Or answer a question a woman asks you with an answer that’s the opposite of what she expects, all in a very sarcastic tone that implies you’re making fun of her.

When you do, you’ll create a deep, polarity-charged connection with her that will get her pursuing you in no time flat

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ways to get her to chase you

2009-11-14T09:22:00.000-08:00

Ways To Get Her To Chase You :

Most men naturally assume that it’s the MAN who must pursue the woman. But guys who are naturals at succeeding with women don’t buy into this belief -- and it’s a big part of why they’re always with the most attractive women. What would your life be like if instead of chasing women, women chased you?

Here are 10 tips to shift the dynamic in your favor and get women tripping over themselves for a space on your social calendar

(Priyanka Chopra)

Use her own games on her

We all know women love playing games. But when you turn the tables and play games on a woman, it shifts the power dynamic in your favor.

One of my favorite games to play with women is “You’re a brat, and I’m fake exasperated.” That’s pretty self-explanatory.

Some others are “Let’s see who can act the least interested,” and “I’m hard to get, and you love me.”

Have fun playing these games with a woman and you’ll soon find that she won’t be able to get enough of your challenging, confident personality.
Hint that you’re normal
Never backpedal or explain yourself
Stay on your own course
Show her you get it
Be the dominant one
Stop courting, start attracting
See beyond getting laid
Read between the lines
Use “reverse rapport”

source : www.askmen.com

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2009-11-14T06:37:00.000-08:00

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see yourself as high status

2009-11-13T22:50:00.000-08:00

See yourself as "high status"

Status is where you stand in your social group. Most guys have a low-status self-image. They walk into a room, look around and automatically think other people in the room have higher status than them.

But there are other guys who have a high-status self-image. They walk into a room and expect that they are going to be one of the high-status people in the place. It’s not because they think they’re better than others, it’s just a part of who they are. The healthiest of these are men who use their high status to help others.

Build a high-status self-image and learn how to use your confidence and talent to help others.

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always seek the next level

2009-11-13T22:47:00.000-08:00

Always seek the next level

One of the positive things about life -- whether you think it’s luck, fate or a blessing -- is you can evolve your life. There are enough levels to keep evolving to, that if you want to keep going you can -- all the way to the end of your life.

If you want to have higher and higher levels of joy and fulfillment, keep evolving, keep looking for the next level of you. Don’t ever think you have arrived. And if the people around you ever think you’re the bomb, go get a new set of friends that are at a higher level and can point out that you still have a long way to go. It’ll be good for you and your happiness.

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eliminate failure by learning from it

2009-11-13T22:43:00.000-08:00

Eliminate failure by learning from it

I’ve worked for a number of years to get the whole idea of failure out of the way I think about things. Do you know humans invented the idea of failure? The problem comes when we make a “failure” mean something about us. You fail at something and you start to believe that you are a failure.

Instead of doing this, stop, look at the experience and learn from it. Then compare the lesson you got to the price you paid. You’ll find the lesson is always a bargain. Focus on the learning

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stop making up meaning

2009-11-13T22:40:00.001-08:00

Stop making up meaning

We humans make up meaning all the time. If someone disapproves of us, rather than thinking “oh that’s their issue,” we internalize it and make it about us and about who we are as a person. We attach it to our self-image and make, what I call, “identity meaning.” We tell ourselves: “Wow, people don’t approve of me. I probably don’t deserve approval. I’m the kind of person people don’t approve of.” Ouch! Stop making identity meaning. When someone doesn’t approve of you, realize they can do whatever they want and it has nothing to do with you.

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work on yourself no women

2009-11-13T22:38:00.000-08:00

Work on yourself, not women

A common theme in the self-help world is that you can’t change other people, you can only change yourself. When things go bad or you don’t get what you want, and your first thought is, “I need to change this other person,” you’re going to beat your head against the wall. If you want to become more successful with women, stop wanting women to change, and start changing yourself. When you do, you’ll change your perspective and your results.

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accept everything the way it is

2009-11-13T22:36:00.000-08:00

Accept everything the way it is

Most people wish the world, women and even they were different. They whine and complain and act like a victim. They do things that are ineffective because they live in a pretend world in their mind. Instead, accept things the way they are, even if it’s painful. Once you do, you can start to change the world around you and yourself. You’ll have the power to redirect things as you move into the future.

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move your frame of reference inside

2009-11-13T22:32:00.000-08:00

Move your frame of reference inside

Psychologists know that most people have an “external frame of reference.” They’re constantly looking around at the world and others for clues about whether they’re doing the right thing, in the right place, wearing the right clothes, thinking the right thoughts, etc. There is another group of people who have an internal frame of reference. Instead of looking outside to figure out if they are on the right page, they look inside to figure out if everyone else is on the right page. If your own inner voice is making the decisions in your life, you’ll be more effective, powerful and charismatic. Move your frame of reference inside.

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build a self-image that you love

2009-11-13T22:26:00.000-08:00

Build a self-image that you love

Use that brain of yours to create a rich image of the type of guy you’d like to be. Get a clear picture of that person in your mind, and reflect on it often. Ask yourself if you’re the person you’d like to be. If the answer is no, figure out who that person is, and clarify it over time. Make it so compelling that you want to move toward it. The clearer you make it, the more likely you’ll become that person. Keep focusing on it, and you’ll quickly become very attractive to women -- and yourself.

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evict your inner wussy

2009-11-13T22:21:00.000-08:00

Evict your Inner Wussy

Most guys have an “Inner Wussy” that screws up their chances with women. Take the time to evict your Inner Wussy. It may take a while. Sometimes the tenant wants to hang around and sometimes the tenant is getting energy from being a victim. Ask yourself what “secondary benefits” you get by thinking like a Wussy. Maybe when you complain about things it means you don’t have to feel responsible for your life, and that feels good in the short-term. Or maybe when you complain about how bad other people are it gives you a mild feeling of superiority over others. Get rid of this stuff. It doesn’t serve you, and women don’t dig it. Evict your Inner Wussy

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take responsibility

2009-11-13T22:16:00.000-08:00

Take responsibility

If you want to have massive success with women and life, transform yourself from someone who is a victim to someone who makes things happen. Take responsible for your thoughts, actions and results. And any time you catch yourself not taking responsibility for your life, stop and tell yourself: “I take responsibility.” Especially in those moments when it’s easy to blame things on someone else. That’s the most important time. By taking responsibility for your whole life, you’ll become a much better man -- and create the life you want in the process

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